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Black Men Socialized To Be Patriarchs, Though Powerless, Act Like white Men
And, Therefore Abuse Women and Children
Dubois warned us…. 
…in his 1960 speech, Whither Now and Why…1st 2 pages:
“There is much hard work yet to be done before the Negro becomes a voter, before he has equal rights to education and before he can claim complete civil and social equality. Yet this situation is insight and it brings not as many assume an end to the so-called Negro problems, but a beginning of even more difficult problems of race and culture. Because what we must now ask ourselves is when we become equal American citizens what will be our aims and ideals and what will we have to do with selecting these aims and ideals Are we to assume that we will simply adopt the ideals of Americans and become what they are or want to be and that we will have in this process no ideals of our own?”
“That would mean that we would cease to be Negroes as such and become white in action if not completely in color. We would take on the culture of white Americas doing as they do and thinking as they think.”
Dubois continues, “[m]anifestly this would not be satisfactory. …We would lose our memory of Negro history…we would cease to acknowledge any greater tie with Africa…we would not try to develop Negro music…we would and thus solve our racial problem in America by committing racial suicide…“
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- Race suicide includes marrying ‘light’ and having children who don’t identify as Black.
Per Dubois: “… marry lighter people so as to have children who are not identified with the Negro race…race suicide.”
The difference, Malcolm studied Classical African History, pre-1492 which is emphatically matriarchal or gender equal and!! began to live it. Ideologically, he went from Detroit Red, who had no respect for others, women included to Malcolm X. African history transformed him.