Do white Men Know Sexual Abuse is Wrong? Archbishop Carlson, 69, Said He Didin’t Know
Do other white men know? Since white women raise them, do they know it’s wrong? So, who’s going to teach them…the #metoo 10 year old movement or the months old #timesup movement?
We need to be clear, some things whites people socialized by patriarchal values just don’t know how to do.
White men, historically, have been socialized…taught…by their culture to abuse women, children, and the weak…their sex is about the ‘dominate’ controlling the ‘submissive’ or weaker…see below.
I think it’s in their nature; anything that gives them pleasure cannot be viewed as wrong.
I’m trying to demonstrate to people of color that this sexual behavior and any other behavior that’s disrespectful to others and/or nature and/or the universe are characteristic of their white male patriarchal culture. Not just in their nature…it is their nature and it’s the virtually the opposite of our matriarchal cultural values.
Therefore, we need choose which culture we want to live…matriarchy or patriarchy which is being forced on us only because we’re unfamiliar with matriarchy
And, if we choose patriarchy or are induced or fooled into choosing it, we need know\…we’ll think and act as they do…even sexually.
Make sense?
Bill Cosby, Russel Simmons, Marion Barry, John Conyers’ behavior…speaks to the extent they bought into patriarchal culture…not an indictment but a warning…when we buy into their culture, we do what they do. WEB Dubois warned us of that in his 1960 speech Whither Now and Why.
I feel I’m not doing a good job because people don’t seem to get what I’m trying to say or I’m not saying it clearly, i.e, I’m talking about them/us consciously choosing whether they want to be ideologically white …disrespecting others, nature & the universe or Black…respecting others, nature, & the universe.
If we want to be ideologically black and respectful, we’ll need (1) learn our 3 million year history, (2) get audited by the NOI (only they know how to audit us…they learned Dianetics per Farrakhan’s advisement ) to help us heal from historical trauma , and (3) frequent a 12 Steps program to stop our patriarchal thinking to learn how to think and act matriarchically… i.e., Ubuntu…’I am because you are’.
Make sense?