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12 Steps to Recover from Colonized Thinking (#12SRCT)

~ The aim of #RCT is to provide people a process for changing how they've been taught to think and behave patriarchy which fosters inequality, i.e., classism, sexism, and racism to thinking matriarchy which fosters equity. The 12 step process, if followed, has been proven to begin to change how one thinks and behaves in 90 days. To promote permanent change, THIS 12 step program includes New Way of Thinking (#NWTC) classes to correct the lies patriarchy has spread around the world. The 12-18 month classes include 1) Understanding the two primary global cultures, matriarchy and patriarchy (#UMPC), 2) Understanding the system of racism/white supremacy (#USRwS), and 3) Pre-Columbus-colonial African History (#PCAH).

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(European) Marriage For Love Is Recent…Check History

17 Friday Aug 2018

Posted by Jackie Morgan in #culture, Family/Relationship/Sex, Relationships & Sex, Solution

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#KhauVaiLoveMarket, #KhauVaiLoveMarket #hmonglovefestival, #polyandry

 Marriage For Love Is Recent…Check History…European History, That It…Our History of Relationships Is Different

Listen to History of (European) Marriage:   

https://wamu.org/story/18/02/12/when-did-marriage-become-so-hard/

This movie, a true story, portrays why whites got married in the 1700’s; the radio program gives an overview as how it came to be what it is currently.

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Black people are the oldest people in the world therefore, they have the oldest types of relationships…and not the type white people have…and, it doesn’t include high rates of divorce, jealously, abuse or illegitimate children, less divorce, no jealousy, or abuse. 

Our history include: 

Polygamy definition is – marriage in which a spouse of either sex may have more than one mate at the same time.

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Polyandry – a woman has more than  one husband practiced among Tibetans in Nepal, parts of China and part of northern India, in which two or more brothers are married to the same wife, with the wife having equal “sexual access” to them.

Image result for one wife several husbands

 

Love Festival to meet or find a lover – The Hmong of Vietnam go to a Love Market Festival annually to find lovers or to be with lovers…if the woman gets pregnant no thing…the husband accepts it as his, no anger or jealously

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No Word for Sex –  in the Dagaaba culture and tradition, there is no word for sex; Malidoma and Sobonfu Some’s marriage was arranged and couples don’t sleep together the night they marry.  They say the problems with American relationships is they start at the top of intimacy, with sex then have no where to go with their relationships. 

Mother’s Brother Is Father not Biological Father – In European Patriarchal culture, descent is traced through the man or father…if child is not his, the child is illegitimate. 

In African Matriarchal culture descent is traced through the woman or mother; mother’s brother or uncle fulfilled the father role..all children, therefore have a father…no concept of illegitimacy and the child belongs to the village….the extended family. 

Just image, if African Americans began to live matriarch-ally, none of our children would be illegitimate, i.e., all Black children would have a father, his uncle.  The practice would begin to  put an end to ‘fatherless’ children.  Yes, we’d probably have to return to several generations living together but that would solve a lot of other problems we have because we’re living patriarch-ally.

Female Husbands / Male Daughters – has nothing to do with sex.  

In other words, the marriage promotes the social or economic status of the women. The women don’t engage in sex with each other they each have the right to have sex with men of their choice.  The purpose of the union is the continuation of the family line. the man who impregnates the woman is chosen from the female ‘husband’s’ clan.

POINT: To know the types of marriage people engage in globally and historically would broaden they type of relationships available to us vs only knowing about one.

Polyandry: Women Marry More Than One Man

30 Sunday Aug 2015

Posted by Jackie Morgan in Uncategorized

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#himalayslama, #maasai, #marriage, #nyinba, #polyandry, #tibet

European Marriage, Which Focus On Love & Sex & Property…Marriages The World Over Among People of Color, Marriage is A About Family &…To Include Polyandry 

Himalays, Lama

Himalays, Lama

The Nyinban Tibet

The Nyinba of Tibet

The Maasai recognize both polygamy and polyandry

The Maasai recognize both polygamy and polyandry

Anthropologist have found 53 societies that still recognize polyandry; most often found in Nepal, Tibet, and India.  It’s found world wide but most often in egalitarian societies.  These marriages are not about ‘sex’ but usually are in response to environmental conditions, for instance, where there aren’t many women…a woman will marry all the brothers.  She’ll sleep with each by the month so as to know to whom the belongs.  Interestingly, divorce is scarce where there’s polyandry.

In Asia, it allows families in areas of scarce farmable land to hold agricultural estates together. The marriage of all brothers in a family to the same wife allows plots of family-owned land to remain intact and undivided.”

In other cultures, it appears that a man may arrange a second husband (again, frequently his brother) for his wife because he knows that, when he must be absent, the second husband will protect his wife — and thus his interests. And if she gets impregnated while Husband #1 is gone, it will be by someone of whom he has approved in advance. Anthropologists have recorded this kind of situation among certain cultures among the Inuit (the people formerly called Eskimos).

Then there’s the “father effect” among the Bari people of Venezuela. The Bari have a system for recognizing two living men as both being fathers of a single child.  The Bari people think children with two fathers are significantly more likely to survive to age 15 than children with only one — hence the term “father effect.”

Two fathers? As odd as it can sound to those of us who know of human development as the one-egg-meets-one-sperm story, some cultures maintain the idea that fetuses develop in the womb as the result of multiple contributions of semen over the course of a pregnancy.  Two men can be socially recognized as legitimate fathers of a single child.  

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